A Personal Reflection on the Work
The Smile That Wants to Become a Civic Practice
A Personal Reflection on the Smilegiving Poems and Vision
Creating Peace and Prosperity Through Poetry
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A word about what follows. This started as a review of my own work, and reviewing your own work is a strange thing to do — it can tip so easily into either false modesty or quiet boasting. What I’ve tried to do instead is simply tell you, as honestly as I can, what I hoped Smilegiving might be, where it came from, and why it matters so much to me. If any of it sounds like a claim, please read it as a hope. I’m deeply grateful to be able to make the attempt at all.
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What Walked Into the Room
Smilegiving is what happened when a lot of things I love walked into the same room and decided to start passing bread — American devotional poetry, the countercultural songbook, New Thought metaphysics, Christ consciousness, Whitman’s democracy, the Grateful Dead’s sense of community, the Beat road, and one very practical instruction I keep coming back to: give to others what you would receive. I don’t think of it as only a poetry project. Over time it became a mood, a method, a small metaphysics, a publishing hope, and — if I’m allowed the ambition — something like a cultural repair kit disguised as a smile.
The first thing I’d want a reader to notice is that the poems aren’t a miscellaneous stack. The index presents them as five movements — The Doorway, The Honest Dark, The Widening, The Quiet Center, and The Turn Toward You. That architecture matters to me. I wanted the collection to feel less like a book of isolated poems and more like a pilgrimage: welcome, trouble, expansion, stillness, return — a single journey from the doorway, through the honest dark, out into the widening world, down to the quiet center, and home again to you.
I never wanted the poems merely to say “be kind.” I wanted them to stage kindness as an event — to bring a reader in through welcome, sit with sorrow and division, widen the personal into the communal, quiet the soul, and then send the reader back outward with something to pass on. In the note before the poems I called a poem “a lamp handed from one set of hands to another,” whose work happens “in the passing.” That isn’t a casual author’s note. It’s the whole operating system, and I ask readers plainly to read slowly, read aloud, and hand it on.
The proposition underneath is an old spiritual insight I’ve only tried to give a modern setting: the gift grows by being given. In “One Open Hand” I called love “the strange coin / that grows by being spent,” and told the reader to open the fist because “a closed hand can hold, / but it cannot be filled.” In “The Book For Giving” it turns almost liturgical — “when everybody gives, everybody receives.” If there’s anything at the heart of the work, it’s the wish that generosity might feel less like moral homework and more like a kind of spiritual physics.
A Theology of the Smile
The theology underneath is meant to be generous, immanent, and radically invitational. I don’t imagine God primarily as an external watcher but as a current moving through persons; I take the human being to be already loved; and I treat love as the economy of the universe. I’d rather the poems be spiritual without being narrow, devotional without being scolding, and Christian-inflected without being exclusionary.
That last point matters to me more than almost any other. “Jesus Smiled” may be the cornerstone, because it dares to imagine the returned Christ not as catastrophe but as recognition — “He appeared in every face, / and smiled” — and asks the reader to “look for what joins us, not what divides.” But this Christ was never meant as a sectarian gatekeeper. Near the close he offers namaste, the divine in me bowing to the divine in you, and the poem ends with love alive “in Me, and in You, / and in every child.” I don’t experience that as a dilution of Christianity. I experience it as an opening of it.
The literary family tree matters as much as the theology, and I’ve never been shy about the debts. There are four braided lineages I keep returning to: Whitman and Ginsberg’s ecstatic American free verse; the Beat road of Kerouac and Cassady; Dylan, the Dead, and the sixties songbook; and the wisdom traditions of the Gospels, the Tao, Zen, and New Thought. “Hippie Dreams” lays the wiring bare — “I sing the body of Walt Whitman,” “I breathe the mind of Allen Ginsberg,” “I feel the poetry of Bob Dylan” — alongside Cowboy Neal, Hendrix, Kerouac, the Beatles, the Byrds, and more. It’s half catalog, half jukebox, half altar, which is three halves, and for this project that feels exactly right.
Whitman is everywhere, especially in “The Long Table — America at 250.” The poem announces its method — “Let me sing it the way Walt taught us to sing” — and then turns from generals and monuments to “the wide and ordinary us,” singing the diner worker, the kid translating a lease, the lineman, the nurse, the farmer, the welder, the teacher, the trucker, and all the hands that keep a country alive. I don’t think of it as imitation. I think of it as inheritance — Whitman’s democratic catalog carried forward into a wounded century and asked to do fresh work.
The Long Table and the American Civic Imagination
“The Long Table” is where I most hope the work earns its public relevance, because I tried to refuse the easy choice between patriotism and truth-telling. It celebrates America as a “beautiful unfinished thing” while admitting that the table’s promise has had to be widened, painfully and repeatedly, for those left standing. It names late-arriving justice, and then insists that the widening of us isn’t the country’s shame but “the country’s actual work.” I wanted love that doesn’t flatter the nation — love that tells the truth so the nation can grow.
It isn’t partisan in the shallow sense, but it is deeply civic. My answer to division was never “everyone should agree.” It was: the table must remain longer than the argument is loud. The poem imagines disagreement “the way a family disagrees / at a table it refuses to leave,” and asks the reader to pass bread to the hand that did not vote like yours, and yet is “beneath everything, your own.” I don’t mean that as naïveté. I mean it as a discipline — democracy as table manners raised, if I dare say it, to a kind of practice.
The reply to Yeats is another move I care about. “The Second He Comes” answers “The Second Coming” directly, but where Yeats gives us the widening gyre and the falcon that cannot hear the falconer and the shape slouching toward Bethlehem, I let the omen reverse — “the widening spiral winds home,” “the falcon hears the falconer after all,” and no beast comes from the desert. What arrives instead is bright Love, born again in those who let it in. I know it’s audacious to argue with one of modernity’s great crisis poems, and I did it the only way I know how: with a grin and a candle, asking — what if the center did hold?
Craft: The Machinery of Warmth
I hope the poems work partly because they’re built to be remembered. The craft I aim for asks each poem to begin in wonder, end in the reader, affirm worth without flattery, let sound carry the argument, honor the lineage, keep the recurring iconography, stay plain enough “for the stranger and the mirror,” and make the gift the point. So the work isn’t merely “positive.” When it’s working, it leans on anaphora, refrain, pun, internal rhyme, second-person address, and the volta — the turn — as the actual engine of transformation.
The puns are the part I have the most plain fun with. “Yesmile” fuses yes and smile into a small sacrament of affirmation. “Peaced Together” hears peace inside piecing. “Tao Jones” turns value and the Way into one joke-serious phrase. “Co-Creator Conspiracy” recovers the old sense of conspiracy as breathing together — “we lean in close and breathe the same air.” It’s play, but I don’t think it’s trivial. The wordplay embodies the worldview: separation is often just a bad spelling of unity.
The images repeat on purpose, until they become a shared world. Smile, bread, river, light, star, grain of sand, open hand, open door, home, table, seed, hum — these aren’t random decorations but the iconography of the whole thing. The smile is the master image, bread is love’s nourishment, the river is the divine flow, the light and star are the inner spark, the grain of sand is the infinite held in the small, and the open hand and open door are the posture of giving and receiving. Once you’ve read a handful of the poems, I hope you begin to recognize the furniture.
Peace and Prosperity Through Poetry
The Trust exists to preserve, cultivate, publish, and extend this work in the service of human flourishing — of love, compassion, gratitude, wisdom, creativity, meaning, and beauty. I summed the mission up as peace and prosperity through poetry, and I know that phrase can sound at first like a banner over a very friendly festival booth. But I mean something specific by it.
Peace, in these terms, isn’t mere quiet. It’s healed perception, softened walls, restored neighborliness, freedom from the inner war. Prosperity isn’t only money. It’s an abundance of trust, attention, courage, and creative possibility, held inside a moral ecology of mutual flourishing. My working hunch is a small chain: poetry strengthens attention; attention strengthens awareness; awareness strengthens gratitude; gratitude strengthens connection; connection strengthens compassion; compassion strengthens community; and community strengthens flourishing. It isn’t policy in the narrow sense. But I think it sits upstream from policy — it’s how the weather of a people slowly changes.
That’s why the emphasis on sharing matters so much to me. The work is designed for circulation — read aloud, sent to a friend, printed, given, discussed, returned. “What You Came For” makes this almost cinematic: it opens with radical welcome — “Come in. Yes, you” — then descends into a compassionate inventory of loneliness before the revelation that these are not many rooms but one room, and the walls only look like walls. The world is saved, the poem says, not all at once from above, but through small acts passed person to person, like starlings turning or roots sharing sweetness in the dark. If I have a theory of grace, that’s it — and I hold it humbly, because I know how much larger the world’s pain is than any poem.
I also wanted the poems to be sincere in an age a little embarrassed by sincerity. So much of our culture trains us to distrust sweetness, to mistake cynicism for intelligence, to treat hope as a failure of sophistication. I tried to refuse that bargain without pretending suffering is unreal — the craft insists on facing the honest dark before offering any comfort. But once the dark is faced, I let the light come without apology. I hope that’s why the work can be tender and sturdy at once: not greeting-card optimism, but something closer to earned gladness.
The Songbook, the Concert, and the Communion of Culture
The music isn’t decoration either. The Grateful Dead and Dylan matter to me not only as allusions but as models of how community forms — wisdom delivered as communal song, where ordinary American images become carriers of mortality and grace. I want the poems to behave the same way: not simply admired for a line but hummed, handed on, and lived a little differently afterward. They borrow from the concert, the hymn, the chant, the campfire, the protest song, the psalm, and yes, the refrigerator-magnet aphorism — and I hope that mixture somehow adds up to a method.
I dream of the work not staying trapped on the page — anthologies, scholarly editions, visual art, exhibitions, audiobooks, readings, and someday, if I’m very lucky, a Smilegiving library or academy. I say that with real humility, because it’s an enormous hope and I know most hopes this size stay small. But the poems already behave like songs and meditations and cards and civic liturgies, and their natural habitat feels like more than ink: books beautiful enough to give, images radiant enough to share, gatherings generous enough to welcome disagreement without humiliation.
A Civic Practice for a Divided Country
Here is the hope I hold most carefully, because it’s the largest. I think Smilegiving might — might — become a small cultural practice for healing division, because it tries to begin below ideology. It doesn’t first ask, “What side are you on?” It asks whether you can recognize the divine, or at least the human, in the next face you meet. It doesn’t erase difference. It tries to change the posture in which difference is met. I’ve asked the work’s own voice to stay clear, warm, intelligent, compassionate, hopeful, and humble, and to avoid cynicism, hostility, contempt, and needless polarization. That isn’t only a tone preference to me. It’s the closest thing I have to a civic strategy.
For a country nearing its 250th birthday — forced to ask whether it’s a museum, a battlefield, a marketplace, or a living table — “The Long Table” gives the answer I most believe in: a living table. I wanted a patriotism spacious enough for grief, gratitude, repair, and celebration all at once. The country is “not a settled thing, not a finished thing,” but something chosen again each morning. To anyone tired of being told that love of country belongs to one faction and moral honesty to another, the poem says: bring both. Bring the flag and the bread. Bring the argument and the chair. Bring the neighbor who voted differently.
And I hope the practice can travel beyond America without becoming America lecturing the world in rhyme. The voice is unmistakably American — diners, highways, front porches, rock-and-roll metaphysics — but the core is portable: give what you would receive; forgive what you can; see the other as another face of the same light; let beauty restore attention, and attention restore compassion, and compassion restore community. If it ever goes global, I’d want it to be a table where many languages bring their own bread, and where I’m as ready to learn as to offer.
If there’s a simple argument for the work, it’s this: people are starving for writing that makes them feel less alone without insulting their intelligence. I hope the poems do a little of that. They’re meant to read like chapters of one continuous utterance whose whole aim is to help you feel already loved, whole, and home. In an age of algorithmic agitation and loneliness and spiritual exhaustion, that’s the gift I most wanted to be able to give — not an escape from the world but a re-entry into it, with a softer jaw, a wider eye, and a more open hand.
Why I Keep Faith With It
So I do keep faith with the work — not with vague applause, but with something quieter and more grateful. I think it has a recognizable voice, a philosophical center, a steady iconography, a literary lineage, and a real civic relevance. And it has one thing I’m gladdest about: a small action anyone can take right now — smile first, say yes, hand it on.
I want to be honest about the measure of it, though. The final test was never whether every poem is perfect, every line polished, every reader persuaded. The test I actually care about is whether the work leaves people “more held, more whole, and more able to pass that feeling on.” By that standard, and only by that standard, do I let myself feel that it might already be doing a little of its work — passing the lamp, setting the table, and reminding a reader that the wall may only have been painted, the door may never have been locked, and the stranger may have been kin all along.
That’s the whole of what I believe: not that poetry alone will save the world, but that a poem can help change the person who helps change the room that helps change the family that helps change the neighborhood that helps change the country. The deepest successes usually come quietly. A poem may never sell a single extra copy and still change a life. I would be content with that, and grateful beyond telling. If the work ever does become popular, I’d want it to matter only because the act of sharing it is already part of the healing it proposes.
Come in, then. Pull up a chair. There was always meant to be room. The table is long, the bread grows by breaking, the smile is a small theology you can carry in your face — and the mission, which I hold with far more gratitude than pride, is simply this: to help make a little more peace and prosperity through poetry, one open hand, one honest dark, one neighbor, one yes, one smile at a time.
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Smile first. Say yes. Give to others what you would receive.
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